Monday, September 28, 2009

venus vs mars

Men is from Mars n Women is from Venus. This is true. we r totally from different planet, different way of doing thing n understanding. Harbor different logic & "language" but yet we r attracted to each other, fell in love, get married n give birth to species of mars n venus again. n it passes on. But y is that so? y could we love n hate them at the same time? how could we live on with each other while we sometimes shed the most tears for them? bear the most pain n swallow the most grieve? yes we do share the most joyous moment n laugh loudly together. But still, it's hard to get the message across becos we r not the same kind. Women could almost understand each other while talking about worries or concern. Men could almost understand each other while talking about soccer or games. But y r we meant to be opposite attracted? (despite the exceptional ones) or r we expected too much? is it "that" difficult to know what we actually wanted? there's no need to be this direct i guess even if u cant catch wat im "hinting". Blame on ur strength in observation. otherwise, y would we know what u r thinking with jus that little moves of urs?

(lets dun talk about sex here) who is the one that worries whether u r hungry? whether u r cold while slping in the nite? have u made new frens while going to work at a new environment? have u eaten ur lunch? did u enjoy being with me? did i make u happy enough?? i believe these r all common tots in women's mind. When u lose ur girl, u felt lonely n down, cos all human r the same, we need someone there to listen to us, be it happy or sad moment, we hope there is at least 1 person we could share with. it's exactly the same for us, we need someone to listen to us too, or jus show/pretend that u r attentive to me at least! i am very sure if u could show jus a little bit more of attention to us, we r very contented already. a little bit more of "I love U!", "Lets do something different today! together.", a light hug, a kiss before the nite ends, "ask" something when u saw that we r not happy or bored, n not pretend that u didnt c it at all. n another thing, prioritize us sometimes. not unreasonable kind, like above ur family or wat. wat i mean is u should prioritize us above ur game or soccer, depend on situation too, i didnt expect u to watch only me while the most exciting match is showing on tv now, i didnt expect u to only talking to me while it's ur weekend time to play ur game! did i ask for too much for that little attention of urs? if a man works, the time for him to talk to his gf is only about 3 hrs(maxed) before slp becos the earlier time was spent on working. sometimes its even lesser cos we "dun" jus talk non stop for 3hrs rite, u will watch the tv, hav dinner n turn on ur computer for games. for all these let's minus 1 hr, so in a day, the time spent is 2hrs, mon - fri is 10hrs. then my precious weekend came but most of the time was spent for game again.. can u imagine the hrs n days i have waited so far? on worst cases like we quarrel during wekends, this is the most annoying part cos there goes my weekends again. back to square 1, start waiting from monday again. if rite here u think that we women r calculative, men isn't any lesser than us sometimes. u plan nicely for the things u wan to do but neglect the time for ur gf, the reason? ur gf or spouse is always by ur side, u c her everyday n almost the moment u reach hm, so it became normal. gotten used to it already.

women gets old u know, n dies off like anybody else. we really wish the time spent with our love ones is meaningful, we wanted to make memories that is full of laughters, at least most of them. do u want to miss someone only when they r gone? the one who used to cover the blanket for u is no longer doing it, the one who listens to ur sad n happiness is no longer listening, the one who hug or coax u to slp is no longer doing so. Do u want to miss her only at that time?
all we ask for is only -treasure me pls.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

vote pls! =)


Hi frens! Pls help to vote for my cousin at here! TQ for the support! His ID is BS14 Eddie! TQ very much! ^^v

Thursday, September 17, 2009

holiday mood~~

I've not been blogging for so long!! ><
rite now is the 4th week of my holiday which is left with another 4 weeks! wahahaha!!! shiok! then when school re-open again, that will be my last sem n there r only 2 module to cover for the whole sem, muahahaha! cool!

well,then i've to bother with my job le.. =.= dunno wat kind of industry will i be working in?? hmm.. 以我的个性, i wont be working office job ba.. @@ but i like working office hrs. ^^ 8-5 or 9-6.. any job suggestion? @@ if i hav e opportunity to work n learn along as a designer, i'll be ok if the pay is lesser! =D wait long long rite? XD i know my strength!

seriously, i really dunno what job will i be working as in the futher. really stress cos i dun wan to choose the wrong job, n further more, jobs r hard to find, so many ppl r jobless now, so my critiria mus be different from others. lol.. lesser salary lo, no choice le..most importantly is the experience! wish me luck!


~~~post is done at 8:37am 17th Sept 2009~~~ my job, wat will it be? hopefully i could find something that suits me! ^^