u reap what u sow

It's simple to understand right? how much u get depends on how much u did? fair right? some ppl jus can't take it n starts talking about it behind ppl's back, calling ppl back-stabbers or stuff.. seriously, when i keep quiet doesn't mean i dun care, when i dun say doesn't mean i have no complaints. i won't say that i dun bother, more appropriately, i would say that i jus dun wish to say much, cos if i did, it jus further complex the thing n turn relationship sour am i right? when i saw what "she" said on facebook this morning, it kinna spoiled my day, but i dun wan it to affects me so i dun take it to heart. But 1 thing i have to say is, ppl aren't free to talk/complaint bout a person if he/she has nothing to talk about. The problem lies on "U" if more than 1 person thinks the same thing, correct me if im wrong. if the whole group thinks that u "r" the problem, would it actually be that "we" n not "u", r the problem??? r we that free to scheme with everyone and all go against u? com'on think before u say anything n be responsible for it.